Mars & Deborah 3: As
Deborah went to the departure hall to fly out of Adelaide I knew that
the next few months were going to drag on slowly and that I would miss
her like crazy. I just didnt want her to go but that was the reality of
the situation. When she got back...
She's From: United States He's From: United States
I know this is probably a strange story.
I'm actually trying to get an objective
opinion about my situation.
Family and friends aren't helping. I met a
wonderful man on an internet dating service site. He's in WA and I'm in
NJ. We clicked immediately on e-mail and took it to phone calls within 3
days or so. After a week of calls, we just knew we were in love. Well,
we had talked about his coming to NJ within the first week we were
talking. See, we were both very serious about having a "soulmate" and we
seemed to click so well we wanted to get the visuals over with to seal
When the date cam for his flight to come in, he never showed at the
airport. For 36 hours I could not contact him until I finally got an
e-mail explaining that he had some issues regarding my trust in him and
got scared coming to NJ without resolving them.
He was so ashamed of missing the flight that
he didn't know what to say to me so he didn't call. He's also afraid of
flying, mind you. He says he wants everything to be right when we meet.
Anyway, after a day or two of intense phone
conversations, we forgave each other for any hurt we caused the other
and he's booking a flight again soon. I care very much for this man. I
know he's not married since I've called his home at all times of the day
and night and he's never told me not to call at any time. He's the only
one ever answering the phone. I have his phone and address and have sent
him Fedex packages that got his signature on the receipt. I have a
number of photos of him and we haven't seemed to hide anything from each
other. If I ask things of him, he doesn't hesitate to answer.
Does it sound believable that he got "cold feet"? I've never had a
relationship from the web before and I want to believe he'll be
there but I don't want to be disappointed again. Can you relate any
experiences like this that may renew my faith in this situation or maybe
let it go?
I may be 39 - but I'm just new to the internet dating scene. I'll keep
you posted on how it turns out.