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He sent me a whisper that simply said "why
did you choose Twilightmama for your name"? We laugh about it now, but
it was that simple question with no sexual
innuendo, that prompted me to answer him. From there we exchanged email
addresses, etc. and continued talking on MSN Messenger.
From the moment this man first made contact
with me, I felt something special, I
knew it was the beginning of something beautiful and unique. We had so
much in common that it was sometimes scary. We found it amazing that two
people, from the opposite sides of the world, from completely different
cultures could share the same beliefs and thought processes.
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But best of all I knew he was the one for
me, because he understood my quirky sense of humor, and better still, he
laughed with me. From there over the months we developed a better
understanding of each other, and our love for each other grew. Jeremy
was able to tell me "I love you" a lot sooner that I was. I had been
burnt from a previous long term relationship and was quite happy to sit
on the sidelines for awhile. I certainly didn't expect for love to
coming 'knocking on my computer screen'.
Finally there was no denying my love for
him - and I told him exactly what he meant to me, and how he affects my
life in so many positive ways. To conclude, I told him that "I loved
him". I made my first trip to Montana, USA on May 29th 2004. It was a
very
long journey (30+ hours). By the time I walked into the arrival area of
the airport, I had a combination of tiredness, nerves and hungriness
going on. I saw Jeremy from the top of the escalator. I managed to
position myself between two fairly tall men, so I was obscured on the
way down. I stepped off the escalator, walked through the glass
sliding doors, and stepped in front of Jeremy and said "hello" (I had
obsessed for hours before on the journey of something meaningful, or
even something funny to say) I had it all worked out in my head - but
when the moment of being there face to face arrived, I was lost for
words...the best I could manage was a pathetic "hello" in a volume no
better than a field mouse squeaking. There he was - standing there
amongst hundreds of people, with a dozen pink roses. We laugh about it
now, because his reaction was no better - his first words to me were
"Your so brown", I said "Yes, what do you expect I'm from a Pacific
Island"? He told me I was beautiful, and far surpassed his expectations.
We kissed, and he wrapped his big strong arms around me...I don't
remember walking to the baggage claim area, and I don't remember the
airport surroundings, or that there were even other people around. At
that very moment, time had stood still, and I was realizing the reality
of all my dreams. Jeremy took me to a wonderful Hotel, and we shared a
beautiful evening together finally in each other's company.
I spent 3 months with Jeremy and his
family in Montana, during which time we got engaged then I flew back to
New Zealand. I returned for another 3 month visit to Montana, then had
to leave to go back to New Zealand again. This time it wasn't so sad
because Jeremy flew back to New Zealand with me to meet my family - they
loved him!. We stayed in New Zealand for one week, then flew back with
my 8 year old daughter to Montana. Jeremy and I got married on April 1st
2005 (April Fools Day)
we thought it was fitting, cause we're two fools who are just madly,
passionately in love. We're in the process of establishing permenent
residency status for my daughter and I at the moment.
My life with him goes from strength to
strength...We hate to be apart from each other
too long. He is my world, and my love that I cherish with all my heart.
In conclusion, without telling people too much detail...when they ask us
"How did you two meet"? we normally like to tell them, that we met
through a 'mutual' friend named 'Bill'. Bill Gates - Microsoft! Works
for us!
"Marcia"
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