Mars & Deborah 3:
As Deborah went to the departure hall to fly out of Adelaide I knew that the next few months were going to drag on slowly and that I would miss her like crazy. I just didnt want her to go but that was the reality of the situation. When she got back...
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She's From:   United States
He's From:     United States

I just read the story on your site about Ryan & Jamie.

  I was very happy to finally read something that is encouraging about "online relationships" because most articles and websites condemn them and say that they aren't real or they only work out for 1 out of 1,000,0000,000 people.

I hope things turn out as well for me as they did for Ryan & Jamie. 

I was drawn to the story when you said on the main page that they were the youngest to meet online and get married. I'm pretty young, 15 to be exact, but somehow God blessed me enough to allow me to find Cameron. Many things happened that made me believe we are meant to be.

 

 



   

 

 
       
 

It's almost like a puzzle, things worked out just right and just in time for us. I first got AOL back in January of this year. I was pretty bored so that first week I decided to go chatroom surfing.

I met a girl named Chelsea in a chatroom I went into and she was the first person I ever talked to online that I didn't know personally. She was in college and we kept in touch and talked and shared things with one another, almost like best friends. In October she told me she was going home from college to see her family and it was then that I learned she had a 15 year old brother named Cameron. She knew a lot about me and she told me that she wanted to introduce me to him because we had a lot in common. I had a boyfriend at the time, but I agreed to meet Cameron online as friends.  

We talked for a very long time that night and before I left he asked me if I had a boyfriend, when i said yes, he made it clear that he was very disappointed. Then, we sorta said goodbye and promised we'd talk later. That night, I could hardly sleep. I stayed in bed, staring up at my ceiling and thinking about how special this guy was. I even found myself wishing that I didn't have a boyfriend because I really wanted to be with him. Then, I convinced myself that I was just being unrealistic and that I should just try to overlook the feelings that were there. The next morning, I found out that my
boyfriend had been cheating on me and we broke up. Coincidence?? I wonder...almost as coincidental as Cameron's sister being the first person I ever met online. While I was at school, I emailed Chelsea and I told her how I felt about Cameron and I begged her to help me. That night, she got him online for me, and we talked and told each other how we felt.  

He had felt the same way. We decided to get to know each other better before deciding to become boyfriend and girlfriend, but on October 16th, we started going out. Every chance we had, we were online talking to each other. One night, I was thinking about how much this one person had changed my life and made me happy. He turned everything around and made my life worth something. I had fallen in love, and i couldn't keep it to myself any longer. Taking a deep breath, I told him that I was in love with him...and at first he was a little shocked, but the feelings were so strong between us that he felt that way too. We began seeing our futures together.

There's only one problem, I live in North Carolina and he lives in California. We've been talking about possibly going to college near each other; Berkeley in California to be exact, but i guess we'll have to see how things turn out. We just recently told our parents about each other, and they are trying to be supportive even though they are a little worried about us being so young. Right now, we are in the process of meeting each other's parents. I really don't know what I would be like if I didn't have Cameron, and I can't see my future without him there.

I'm sure many people think that 15 is way too young, and that we're immature or just going through a "phase," but if you could feel the way I feel in my heart right now, you'd know it is more real than anything else in this whole world. We are very anxious to be with each other and we know that we will be. Pray for us, that we'll be able to be together soon, and remember, just as i found out: Love will find you...even when you least expect it. It's destiny. 

"Chicky"