We have met in Burmese Online IRC chat in
October, 2005 actually not with me, the one who chatting with her it
wasn't me, it was my brother who was just 10 years old boy. My brother
was chatting with her just twice. My brother asked to have conversation
on the phone, she said she will call to him but my brother gave her to
my cell number because my brother is just a kid, so he can't answer her
calls. I didn't know about that at that time. Suddenly my brother called
my phone that one girl going to call to you phone her name is "Nadee"
and please answer her calls as instead of him. I said I'll help him.
When phone was coming that time I was in
angry because I was disappointed with my father. But I told to Nadee
that call me back at 4:00pm. When she called me at 4:00pm, I answered
her calls nicely and we were greeting each other and talking craps,
gossips and blah blah. I asked her that what her religion is; she said
that she's Muslim. I was wondered in Burma, most of Muslim girls didn't
use Internet that much. Just a few girls are in. I told her too that I
am Muslim either… We kept in touch with phone about 1 month before we
meet at real world because of that time we were on fasting month. We
arranged after Islam's aid we would meet at real world. She allowed it
Pointed to going to have coffee and watch movie. We both agreed it. We
met at coffee shop as "Cafe Aroma" then we watched movie. While we were
watching movie, both of us didn't greet each other yet because of
scaring. I started to talk her something blah blah… Obviously I was
really scaring I could not talk what I wanted. After all I proposed her
at cinema hall, She said "I'll give you love answer after 1 week, Can
you wait? Is it too long?" I said "It's not that much long I'll wait"
After movie, I went back to my home and I was missing of her I was
really love to spend my time with her, I translated that I am in love.
Alright, we watched movie at Saturday, I got love answer at Tuesday
because I asked for a love answer like beggar.
We arranged to meet again at "Silver Oak
Cafe". I got there first and I didn't go to cafe shop yet, I was sitting
on my car to wait her. Soon, she arrived with her car and she went to
cafe shop then I entered too. I said to waiter that I want a private
special room not in lobby because you know lobby is a kind of noisy
place. When we got into private room I hold her hand, she was really
shame as far as I think so. I asked her for a cheek kiss then she gave
me after I asked thousand of times. I'm sure we both really loved of
each other. I kept seeing her eyes and lips but she could not bear that.
One thing that she can't call me phone while she's in home because her
mother didn't allow that her daughter is talking with boys.
So, she only had to call me from outside.
After some days, I was getting love her more and more, I really could
not live without her calls. I was really wanted to talk with her 24
hours. One day I told her to come with me to some good place as picnic.
I was guessing where to go, I got golf resort hotel named as "Ye' Mon
Island" which's in out of town. We went there and spend whole day, we
were love each other very much, we had have lunch together. Next 1 week
I told her to tell her mother about us that we want to engage, her
mother allowed us but her mother didn't ask to her father yet. In Fact
in her home, her father is the main person. In my home my mother is the
main person. I told her either that I was going to tell to my mother too
when she get back from Saudi Arabia. They went there for a Hajj.
Sometimes I and Nadee fought on the phone; honestly I treated her bad
even though she treated me nicely. She has not rude to me even once.
Well, I didn't tell any thing about us even they knew it already because
my mother's sisters were screwing to my mother. Point is that I got
marking from nadee it's just simple between every lovers. Aunties were
complaining to my mother. Ha Ha. What a shame even they had nothing to
do with us. My parents said not to marry to Nadee. If I marry to her, my
parents won't any care of me. If I have enough money, I will marry to
her right now. Now my parents don't agree so I have to wait until they
want. But I won't marry her in this situation because I've no own
After a couple of weeks my parents
allowed to marry her; they said me to make engagement with her and then
I told to my girl that come and meet my mother. Then she came to my home
and had chat with my mother. My mother loves her so much. That night
Nadee came to chat and told me that " This is your turn to meet my
mummy". Well, I went to meet her mother at her aunt's home. Her mother
could not meet me at her home because of there are too many families in
their home. I had chat with her mother also, her mother likes me. Her
mother said " I have to talk to her dad because if her dad doesn't
allowed this engagement would not possible.
When her dad enquiry about me what he all
heard are bad about me then he rejected about engagement so, I and my
girlfriend used to met when she's in tuition. We could not met during
the water festival, after that we arranged to meet again that day I
wasn't with my car, when we went to karaoke room there had no any cold
drinks and any foods so, we just sang for a hour. Then I told her that "
I am really hungry I need to have a burger and I said I am gonna get the
taxi" she said " don't go with taxi, she will go with her car" then I
said " OK " her driver drove. when we came back from restaurant I went
back to my home and her father caught her.
Her father stopped her phone, stopped her
going outside. If she goes outside she had to go with her aunt. But we
tried to meet even in that situation. She said she will buy a cell phone
with her own money. she really loves me and we also have planned to
elope at in November because of she will turn to 18 in November. Now I
am waiting of the day comes.