Shana and Michael:
It all started last July. I was baby sitting my younger cousin Kristian while my aunt was out of town for the weekend. As it was getting late I put Kristian to bed and I began to watch TV... 
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I wanted to take the time to tell my story if I could. 

First off I want to start off by saying be honest, even if things don't go like you want tell the truth from the start.


Well here is my story. I was new to the computer I only had it for about a month when one night I was very bored just playing around I thought I would get on line in yahoo chat to see what people was doing after a few crazy people and comments I was pmed by this guy his screen name was dnice.

Well we started out talking and seemed to hit it off right off we had been talking for a few weeks we would see each other and soon as we did we pmed the talks was great then after a while he had a problem with his computer and had to change his screen name he changed it to shadowcon. 






Well anyway, the talks got longer and longer to where it was a every night thing we met at 12 every night to talk till 2 am well after a while into the talks, we asked each other about how we looked.

He told me about himself first then I got scared I lied to him about my weight cause I didn't know how to tell him how I really looked. I had really liked him and was afraid he would not like me if he knew. Well we had been talking for months and things started to get really serious. I finally could not take it anymore so one night when we was on line I told him I had lied to him and needed to tell him the truth he seemed very understanding at first he had to get off line so he asked me to email him to explain and I did that night I poured my guts out to this man in a email and sent a pic I was so afraid of what the next day would bring. 

Well that next day the phone rang it was him. He had not checked his email but was getting ready to leave for work and wanted to call to tell me he loved me before he left. I begged him to look at his email and he said he would after work. Well as the night went on he had called me from his work and we talked for awhile but then he had to go. I know I should have just told him on the phone but I couldn't.

He promised to read them when he got home that night I watched for him online at our usual time he never showed right then I knew something was wrong but for 2 weeks I sat at our regular time and place waiting and heard nothing. It was like he never had been real. He never spoke to me again and I lost him anyway.

Two months later I still miss him very much and I still feel very strong for him but because I had lied I lost him, so my advice to you is tell the truth from the beginning take the chance if you don't you can still lose in the end.

Thank you for listening to my story. I have since moved on but I have learned my lesson I never lied this time I am with someone now and I started out telling the truth from the start. 

From someone who learned their lesson. 

"Lesson Learned"